Where the romance is real… but so is the reality check.
Helping women decode, survive, and thrive through relationships with Jamaican men with truth, tools, and a whole lot of side-eye.
Meet Aisha 'Memee' Whyte — The Coach, The Expat, The Real One
I’ve been dating Jamaican men since 1996 and moved to Jamaica in 2009 for love. From poetic pet names to plot twists that rival Netflix, I’ve seen it all. What started as personal survival turned into a mission: to help women like you stop second-guessing, start setting boundaries, and protect your peace.
I’m not here to bash men, I’m here to equip you. With real talk, cultural insight, and tools that actually help.
This Space is for You If…
✅ You’re dating a Jamaican man — locally or long-distance
✅ You’re confused by the cultural nuances
✅ You’re tired of mixed signals and emotional whiplash
✅ You want tools, not TikToks
✅ You’re ready to reclaim your peace (without deleting WhatsApp... yet)
What Surviving Jamaican Men Offers
🔍 Real Talk Advice — blog posts, red flag breakdowns, and relationship truths
💬 1:1 Coaching & Red Flag Reviews — personalized, judgment-free support
🛠️ Workshops & Tools — practical guides, downloads, and mindset shifts
💕 Community — You’re not alone, and you never have to feel like you are